The more we let the participants of reality television into our homes, media and brain, the more we consume confusing messages about what to expect in intimate relationships. Many of these edited distortions of “reality” normalizes dramatic and destructive behaviors. They hook us in with the promise of getting a peek into private lives which in comparison to our relationships helps us feel not only acceptable, but superior.

The true “reality” is there has never before existed the societal freedom that allows two partners to shape their relationship to fit their psychological, social, familial and spiritual needs. Of course  the journey toward customizing your relationship  takes work many people don’t’ feel entitled to begin or know where to start .This blog will be about what you can do to find your pathway to your own unique brand of coupling .